Life traps – maladaptive schemes
Sometimes we have a feeling in our lives that we are repeatedly stuck in a “life trap”. Complex patterns of experience, known as schemas, control our behavior and thus our lives, partly consciously and partly unconsciously. In schema therapy it is assumed that already in early childhood we learn how life “works” through the reaction of our environment.
Depending on how parents, teachers, friends or other caregivers react to us and to what extent we were able to satisfy our needs in the relationships, these typical patterns of memories, thoughts, beliefs, feelings and impulses for action are formed.
Sometimes a small stimulus is enough and the old pattern jumps in, then we react automatically and use strategy from before, which turn out to be more of a hindrance later in life.